{"id":44664,"date":"2026-02-05T07:22:30","date_gmt":"2026-02-05T07:22:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/agooka.com\/news\/usa\/miranda-kerr-says-one-thing-has-helped-her-co-parent-peacefully-with-ex-orlando-bloom\/"},"modified":"2026-02-05T07:22:30","modified_gmt":"2026-02-05T07:22:30","slug":"miranda-kerr-says-one-thing-has-helped-her-co-parent-peacefully-with-ex-orlando-bloom","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/agooka.com\/news\/usa\/miranda-kerr-says-one-thing-has-helped-her-co-parent-peacefully-with-ex-orlando-bloom\/","title":{"rendered":"Miranda Kerr says one thing has helped her co-parent peacefully with ex Orlando Bloom"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i.insider.com\/698400e4a645d1188188b8fc?format=jpeg\" alt=\"Miranda Kerr.\"\/><figcaption>Miranda Kerr.<\/p>\n<p>Lionel Hahn\/Getty Images<\/p>\n<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<ul>\n<li>Miranda Kerr says choosing forgiveness helped her co-parent peacefully with her ex, Orlando Bloom.<\/li>\n<li>&quot;There are going to be situations where you&#039;re going to need to talk if you like it or not,&quot; she said.<\/li>\n<li>The model said her husband, Snapchat cofounder Evan Spiegel, helped her set better boundaries with Bloom.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Miranda Kerr, 42, says choosing forgiveness helped her co-parent peacefully with her ex, Orlando Bloom.<\/p>\n<p>On Tuesday&#039;s episode of the &quot;We Need To Talk&quot; podcast, the former Victoria&#039;s Secret Angel spoke about the dynamics of her relationship with Bloom, whom she was married to from 2010 to 2013.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;I think because from day one, Orlando and I had done a lot of spiritual work, and forgiveness was a big part of that. Forgiving each other, forgiving ourselves, creating peace within the situation,&quot; Kerr told podcast host Paul C. Brunson.<\/p>\n<p>The model said she and Bloom recognized their relationship &quot;was not bringing out the best in each other.&quot; When they eventually separated, she said they agreed to put their son, Flynn, first.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;Let&#039;s not make it about us. Let&#039;s make it about what&#039;s in the best interest for Flynn. But at the same time, let&#039;s make sure that we completely forgive each other, make peace with each other, because otherwise it really weighs on you,&quot; Kerr said.<\/p>\n<p>Having &quot;animosity&quot; toward someone because &quot;they didn&#039;t live up to your expectations&quot; can be exhausting, especially when that person will still remain in her life, she said.<\/p>\n<p>Kerr said she and Bloom chose to forgive each other and stay peaceful so they could maintain a &quot;harmonious&quot; co-parenting relationship.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;When you have a child with someone else, they&#039;re always going to be that person&#039;s parent for the rest of their life. There are going to be situations where you&#039;re going to need to talk if you like it or not. So why not make it harmonious?&quot; Kerr said.<\/p>\n<p>On the podcast, Kerr also spoke about her relationship with her husband, Snapchat cofounder Evan Spiegel, whom she married in 2017.<\/p>\n<p>She said Spiegel, who is also a child of divorce, didn&#039;t want her son Flynn &quot;to ever feel any of this stuff that he felt.&quot;<\/p>\n<p>&quot;And so he makes an effort to be peaceful and to be kind, and he knows that I love him and he knows that he&#039;s the man for me,&quot; Kerr said.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, Kerr said that Spiegel helped her set better boundaries with Bloom.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;In the beginning, when Orlando and I had recently separated, I was just very, very giving, as always, and wanting to please. And if Orlando had a last-minute change \u2014 and he would say this himself \u2014 I would always accommodate him to that,&quot; Kerr said.<\/p>\n<p>She added that her husband encouraged her not to be afraid to say no.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;He&#039;s like, you know, you don&#039;t have to. So you can be clear and merry and say, &#039;I&#039;m so sorry that your plans changed, but we planned according to this,&#039;&quot; Kerr said, recalling Speigel&#039;s words.<\/p>\n<p>Kerr isn&#039;t alone. Other celebrities have also opened up about how they navigate co-parenting after splitting from their exes.<\/p>\n<p>Kristin Cavallari told Business Insider in 2020 that she was focused on putting her kids first amid her split from ex-husband Jay Cutler.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;They&#039;re the only things I care about right now,&quot; she said. &quot;And so I&#039;m removing any of my emotions or feelings and just thinking about them and putting them first.&quot;<\/p>\n<p>In a 2022 podcast appearance, Kim Kardashian spoke about the challenges of co-parenting with Ye, formerly known as Kanye West. The reality TV star said she protects her ex-husband in the &quot;eyes of my kids, for my kids.&quot;<\/p>\n<p>&quot;One day my kids will thank me for not sitting here and bashing their dad when I could,&quot; Kardashian said.<\/p>\n<p>Read the original article on Business Insider<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Miranda Kerr. Lionel Hahn\/Getty Images Miranda Kerr says choosing forgiveness helped her co-parent peacefully with her ex, Orlando Bloom. &quot;There are going to be situations where you&#039;re going to need to talk if you like it or not,&quot; she said. 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